40 Most Memorable Live Music Experiences






1.    Ben Sollee at Veterans’ Memorial Theatre, Davis, CA 2012 I am happiest when I’m making things, and events are no exception. Since co-founding the Davis Live Music Collective I’ve been very lucky to have had a hand in bringing a few shows to town, or at least putting a stamp on them with promotional graphics and artwork. From the first, formative days of DLMC we had a short list of acts we wanted to host, and Ben was at the top of mine. He and I grew up about an hour and ten years apart in Kentucky, and I had been following his career in music and activism since his outstanding collaboration Dear Companion. He was highly recommended by the long-standing music co-op in Indiana, Friends of Bob, so when Ben posted to Facebook that he was interested in forming something similar in Lexington I jumped at the chance to invite him out to see what we were up to. I took on the show like a thesis project, mostly not wanting to weigh down anyone else in the group with my expectations. Like a thesis project I learned enough to write a book about what not to do, but also what works and how to do it right.

Ben was able to piggyback a Friday show on his Sunday gig at the High Sierra Music Festival, so I picked him up at the airport with his drummer Jordon Ellis and all their gear, and showed them around for the weekend. In the end it was about the music, and they put on a great show full of energy and surprises at how soulful and fun a cello and a drum kit can sound in the right hands. But having the main attraction nod and point to you sitting in the first row as he wraps up the encore wasn’t bad either.

2.    Jon Langford with Sally Timms and the Burlington Welsh Male Chorus at the Hardly Strictly Bluegrass Festival in San Francisco, CA 2008 After seeing Langford's Waco Brothers on Saturday afternoon the idea of catching the bright eyed Welshman and some of his friends first thing Sunday morning was supposed to be like warmed and welcome leftovers. What we got was Christmas dinner in October. The line-up was essentially the Wacos, and they played with as much energy and swagger as they had twenty hours earlier. Oh, and did I mention the thirty-or-so full grown Canadian men singing behind them? They played Jon's songs, sea chanteys, mining and labor songs - but to be honest they could have been singing Row Row Row Your Boat and I would have marched out and bought a boat to row that very day. Never underestimate the power of the human voice, especially when amplified and backed by a kick-ass band. It's the sort of thing I'll never forget or likely see again. I have since had the pleasure of seeing Jon in various incarnations, as well as meeting and working with him on a show or two in Davis. He is the genuine article.

3.    The Jayhawks and Wilco at the Kentucky Theater in Lexington, KY 1995 So this new little band called Wilco opened the show for The Jayhawks who were rolling on the success of Tomorrow the Green Grass. Both bands ripped through their new releases nearly cover to cover with some Uncle Tupelo and a fair amount of Hollywood Town Hall for good measure. Mark Olsen's wife Victoria Williams joined The Jayhawks for several songs including "Miss Williams' Guitar" and their raucous closer "Ten Little Kids," then both bands took the stage for a crazy Golden Smog encore of "Red Headed Stepchild." 1995 was the year alt-country seemed to coalesce and emerge under the larger rock-n-roll umbrella. It was the year No Depression Magazine formed to document the movement and it was the year I saw two of its pioneering and most enduring icons generate the electricity that powered the movement through its heyday and well beyond.

4.    Wilco at Bogarts in Cincinnati, OH 2002 / at the Mondavi Center in Davis, CA 2012 We caught the Cincinnati show during our last pre-child visit to Kentucky (though Amy was pregnant). Dave Mikkelsen met us there. We missed most of Preston School of Industry but we were there for one thing and one thing only... Yankee Hotel Foxtrot. The ink was still drying on its reviews which we all remember raving about its groundbreaking experimentation, trashing its departure from traditional roots music or avoiding the issue altogether to focus on the band's label and line-up changes. YHF created a rare sort of excitement and the band captured and amplified it that night. To my delight Tweedy and Co. drew heavily from Being There, leading off the set with "Misunderstood" and its tightrope. This was a bigger, bolder, smarter Wilco - a Wilco that would soon take over the world. They played all the new songs and interpretations of favorites plus a few surprises including the then unreleased "Handshake Drugs" and "Kicking Television." For me and many others YHF was a watershed moment in a genre we already loved and respected. Catching Wilco live in that moment was as rare and special a thing as I could have hoped.

Fast forward a decade and 2300 miles, Wilco release The Whole Love which finds them not just owning the world but making it to suit their desires. Our 2002 bun in the oven has a seven year old little sister, and twitter is a thing. One thing remains, however – Wilco has a way, regardless of budget or worldly exposure, to say the things I want to hear.

5.    The Head & the Heart at Sophia's Thai Kitchen, Davis 2012 They played in Davis a year earlier before anyone knew who they were. Being truly good people who remember the folks on the way up, they called Kevin at Sophia’s after a cancellation in the Bay area offering a “secret” show. Kevin calls DLMC to offer a generous thank you for supporting music in Davis, and suddenly I’m making posters and standing shoulder to shoulder on the smallest / best stage in town with one of the biggest bands going. The under-age kids and those who couldn’t get tickets came out anyway and stood on the sidewalk, rewarded for their patience once the noise ordinance kicked in and the band literally leapt the railing to play in the bushes, acoustic and exultant for the love of a good time. It was a night many will never forget, including me.

6.   DLMC PRESENTS: Jolie Holland, Sea of Bees and Camila Ortiz at Odd Fellows Hall; Davis Music Fest, Downtown Davis (all of you); Kelly Hogan at David Horning’s house; Jon Langford, Roger Knox and Walter Salas-Humara at David Horning’s house; Typhoon, Laura Gibson and Lost Lander at G Street WunderBar in Davis 2012 It has been a very good year… (see #1)

7.    Black Crowes at Louisville Arena, Louisville, KY 1993 As a 16 year old rock fan living in the south, I was hooked from the first notes. I sat with all the drunk, aging rockers to see them open for ZZ Top in 1990, and I would see them headline the HORDE festival in 1995. But this is the show I’ll always remember. The Jayhawks opened and they were terrific. In fact the group I was with had come primarily to see them. But my friend’s sorority sister’s brother was working security and we were all getting backstage passes if we hung out through the first few Black Crowes’ songs so of course everyone wanted to stay. The break between sets seemed very long, and the crowd grew to include more of the drunk, aging rockers from the ZZ Top show. Finally the lights came on and the arena burst to life. The stage was covered in an impressive curtain of dangling light bulbs behind which Chris Robinson paced like a tiger. They opened with an especially heavy "No Speak No Slave," then that was it. He made an announcement about needing to take care of some business and said they’d be right back, but they never returned. Everyone got refunds, so I got to see a great Jayhawks set for the price of gas money. According to MTV the next day, the band had a run-in with local law enforcement over their alleged possession of some pot. According to my friend’s sorority sister, her brother was the guy who got his face punched by the cops for trying to bar the door while the band hid the loot. While I’m more inclined to trust Rolling Stone's version of the story, it was certainly a memorable night.

8.   Dave Alvin & the Guilty Ones at the City of Davis 4th of July celebration, Community Park, Davis, CA 2012 Instead of spending 4th of July weekend at the family cabin playing games and wading in the river I helped the city host a genuine rock and roll icon. A great evening of community and music aside, walking Dave Alvin through the crowd to the port-a-potties remains a highlight of the summer, and I say that realizing exactly how awful it sounds.

9.    Vic Chesnutt at Noe Valley Ministry in San Francisco, CA 1998 So the evening started dubiously with scheduled opener David Gray sitting in the front pew with a cold that kept him off stage while Maria McKee writhed on the piano bench and sang opera-bar interpretations of her own songs. In contrast Chesnutt was a pinned butterfly, a beautiful tragedy who forced the salvation of his own music through a badly patched vessel. His hands struggled with his instrument and he forgot the words of songs that were either too new or unrehearsed, or too old and infrequently remembered. His stories were frank and sweet and ached with gallows humor so we ached with him. When the pieces came together, notes and phrases that could only be his, it was like discovering cut crystal in a dusty room. Hard, fragile, and perfect - glimmering shards reflecting the mess all around.
 
10.  Phish at Red Rocks Amphitheatre in Colorado 1995 The morning of the show I woke up with the intense memory of a dream in which I knew what it was like to be bald. Before the rest of the house was awake I walked down The Hill to a barber and had her shave my head. That night we bought some huge brownies in the parking lot and ate them like we were actually hungry. Everyone took turns rubbing my stupid bald head while the band played tons of stuff from Rift, an amazing version of "Run Like an Antelope" and stretched "Tweezer" for about fifteen minutes. All was virtuoso jam band bliss then the entire audience was abducted by aliens while walking to their cars. No kidding.

11.  The Knitters at The Palms Playhouse in Winters, CA 2008 First of all The Palms looks and feels like the kind of place you might go for a wedding reception. You have to walk up a flight of stairs slightly wider than the ones in most apartment buildings, tickets are checked by a guy with a little wicker basket who will absolutely remember your face if you have to go back to your car for something and the bar sells as much coffee as beer. It seats 220 people. My friends and I sat up front and were treated to a rockabilly show that might as well have been in my driveway. There's no such thing as security there so I was able to tell Dave Alvin thanks in person after the set and John Doe's brother sold Amy a t-shirt. The highlight was an extended Obama-dedicated romp through "The New World" with a verse of the Beatles "Revolution" nicely covered in the middle. The Knitters clearly love what they're doing and it's easy to see why. Hearing them play so close to home and with such good friends made the love that much easier to feel.

12. Okkervil River at the Hardly Strictly Bluegrass Festival, San Francisco, CA 2009 Will Sheff and mates have developed a tight and exciting stage show with some pat but rewarding routines - enciting the crowd to clap in double-time during "Our Life Is Not a Movie or Maybe" from The Stage Names - but it all came off as genuine and enthralling. When the show ended I felt as if I somehow had a hand in the set list and understood the gravitas, humor and irony of songs like "John Allyn Smith Sails" more completely. Sheff announced that this was their last show of a long tour and that they would really miss all of us, then, as if to squeeze every last bit fun from their journey, launched into a barn burning, string breaking "Unless It's Kicks" to close. What gives this mess some grace unless it's fiction? The songs, the stories, even the show is a work of fiction, a messy rock-n-roll act intended to illicit all the right feelings - but for an hour in October I felt its grace and believed every word.

13.  Avett Brothers at the Hardly Strictly Bluegrass Festival, San Francisco, CA 2010 / at The Grove in Sacramento, CA 2012 The landslide acceptance of 2009’s I and Love and You catapulted the Avett Brothers from grassroots troubadours to main stage icons just in time for our annual trek to the park. The sweet relief of finally finding Amy in the crowd of thousands as they launched into their second song was amplified in every song. But the show I’ll always remember was the one at The Grove. I hadn’t heard of the place and couldn’t believe there were tickets available. The girls had been singing along in the back of the car for a year, so we bought four tickets and took our daughter’s to their first big concert. Nola worried that the big noise would get stuck in her ears forever until we found her some earplugs. Hazel read Harry Potter by stage light during the songs she didn’t know, and stood on her chair shouting along to the one’s she did. Maybe someday they’ll remember it as fondly as I do.

14.  Will Oldham as Bonnie “Prince” Billy at the Hardly Strictly Bluegrass Festival, San Francisco, CA 2010 Oldham is a notorious and prolific chameleon. I first saw him and his brother as Palace Brothers in 1996 at Bimbo's 365 in San Francisco, then as a very down-home string band version of Bonnie 'Prince' Billy at HSB in 2008. By 2010 Oldham was a transcendently unsettling soul singer dressed in black with polished nails, lipstick and his signature eyeliner. No one I’ve seen can simultaneously draw you in and freak you out the way he can, leaving you wondering what the hell just happened and craving more.

15.  Steve Earle at the Hardly Strictly Bluegrass Festival, San Francisco, CA 2004 Steve Earle was the main reason I started dragging everyone I know to San Francisco the first weekend of every October. I’ve managed to catch some if not all of his closing sets at HSB six of the nine years I’ve been, seeing him plugged in and pissed off, solo acoustic, packed around a single mic with four other men like an old radio show, and with a New Orleans brass band. The man is an institution I will enjoy seeing even when his growling becomes indecipherable with old age.

16.  Conor Oberst at the Hardly Strictly Bluegrass Festival, San Francisco, CA 2010 Amy and I knuckled under to pressure from Kelly and (mostly) Christine to brave the youthful sea of hipsters in order to catch Bright Eyes himself headlining solo, backed by the Felice Brothers. I knew his story and what are by now his standards, but wasn’t prepared for the passion he brought. He put on an amazing show – world’s removed from the sad-sack kid I was expecting – and I’m glad he seems to have become something of a fixture at HSB since then.

17. Heartless Bastards at the Hardly Strictly Bluegrass Festival, San Francisco, CA 2012 These guys played so hard and made such a great impression that I ponied up to see them play virtually the same set again that night at GAMH (see below). Texas sized cuts of crackling, thunderous Ohio bedrock that epitomize the importance of seeing a band live.

18.  Jenny Lewis at the Great American Music Hall, San Francisco, CA 2012 One of the amazing perks of having a three day festival in town is the sheer density of artists in one place at the same time. I missed her set at HSB earlier in the evening in order to see The Head and the Heart, but I had seen Jenny & Jonnny two years earlier and we had tickets to her show that night so it was okay. Turns out it was better than okay. She was loose and lovely, in perfect voice and joined on stage by the Watson Twins who swayed and cooed in matching gowns like doo-wop singers from days gone by. It was all the more electric for knowing that Justin Townes Earle was upstairs in the crowd and Conor Oberst was perched stage right with his band, ready to join in at any time.

19. Old 97's at the Hardly Strictly Bluegrass Festival, San Francisco, CA 2009 Contagious and charismatic, Rhett Miller and friends worked up a sweat selling everyone within earshot on the importance of good old fashioned heart-sick, beer swilling rock and roll. Guest spots by personal favorites Jon Langford and Exene Cervenka only sweetened the pot.  

20. Lyle Lovett and his Large Band at the Paramount Theater in Oakland, CA 1998 Lovett is the Texas definition of classy, and the beautiful Art-deco interior of the Paramount allowed him to woo the crowd with just the right amount of aw-shucks respect to share in a certain sense of wonder. His large band easily expanded and contracted to showcase the best, most nuanced elements of the man's songs while his sideways smile lightly leavened his always achingly honest singing voice. I for one walked away a little more humble and very happy.

21.  Bon Iver at Freeborn Hall in Davis, CA 2012 The impossibly spare and beautiful For Emma… will always have a special place with me, so I was committed. But I hadn’t given Justin Vernon’s bigger sound on the new album a fair listen yet, so I was skeptical. The minute I saw a bass saxophone and French horn in his twelve piece ensemble I was reassured. The band expanded and contracted to make the most of each song, filling the hall with texture and art, giving me a real appreciation for what I hadn’t yet come to accept – a goal toward which artists aspire.

22.  The Beach Boys at Riverfront Stadium, Cincinnati, OH 1984 You never forget your first, even if you were too young to remember much. The Reds lost to the Cubs, but we got to stay and hear all of Mom’s favorites. It was a great big loud spectacle, and a great way to start a life of live music. Thanks Mom and Dad!

23.  Son Volt playing a side stage at the HORDE festival in Nashville, TN 1996 / at The Fillmore in San Francisco, CA 1997 Jeff Tweedy’s Wilco made it out of the post-Uncle Tupelo gate first, and while I loved A.M. my money was on Jay Farrar’s Son Volt for the real rock and roll. I went out of my way to miss whichever stoner behemoth my sister and her beaux were seeing on the main stage with the hope of hearing something from Anodyne, and was treated to a small crowd and a big set from their debut. A year later at the Fillmore, Son Volt was on track to own Americana with a new album and great, sound – textured and varied – and soon to be derailed by Jay’s solo turn as a beatnik downer, and a little game changer called Yankee Hotel Foxtrot.

24.  The Bad Plus at the Mondavi Center, Davis, CA 2012 Best. Drummer. Ever. Watching David King play is like watching a kid wrestle his giant pet octopus. And win, as if that were the most natural and joyous thing a person could hope to ever do.

25.  Beck at a taping of the Late Show with David Letterman, New York, NY 2003 Amy and I got caught in Manhattan for the Blizzard of ’03, and so did Beck. He had played the show the night before but was stranded in the city so stayed on for another night, playing a B-side from his lovely new downer Sea Change. The whole event had a great feeling of camaraderie, and seeing Beck was an unexpected highlight.   

26.  Modest Mouse at Bimbo's 365 Club in San Francisco, CA 2000 or 01 The Moon and Antarctica had been playing in my house and car and head for the better part of the year so it was great to finally hear all the hopeless cosmic pathos of "Third Planet" and "Paper Thin Walls" explode among lighthearted gems "Teeth Like God's Shoeshine" and "Talking Shit About a Pretty Sunset." The best part might have been hearing Isaac Brock call some guy an asshole for shouting out "COWBOY DAN!!" in between every song. And yes, they played "Cowboy Dan."
 
27.  Justin Townes Earle at the Great American Music Hall, San Francisco, CA 2011 Like most fans in the information age, it’s hard for me to see JTE without wrapping each song in its long, heavy backstory. Is the guy still sober? Is this song about his dad? Does he know how much he sounds like his dad? I came away from the show with the same questions, but also in awe of the guy’s talent.

28.  Titus Andronicus at The Fox Theatre in Oakland, CA 2011 The Monitor was the best thing that happened to music in 2010 so seeing them on the bill to open for Okkervil River was like rock and roll Christmas.

29.  Peter Gabriel headlining the WOMAD festival in Boston, MA 1994 However you may feel about his post-So output there is no arguing the man's ability to put on an up-to-the-minute high tech show. He made the favorites bigger than life and he highlighted new material from Us with guest performers and dazzling effects to bring the audience on stage and out of our minds.

30.  Dana Falconberry at Dennis Carlson’s house in Davis, CA 2012 Twenty or so people, many of them friends, packed onto rearranged couches and folding chairs in the living/dining room to be dazzled by Dana’s intimate tales of natural wonders. The setting was perfect, and gave a genuine sense of the traveling musician’s need to connect with people in a variety of ways. I can’t wait to see her on a bigger stage.

31. Califone at Bottom of the Hill in San Francisco, CA 2010 As memorable for the company as the show, Rusi, Lesa and I drove to SF from Davis after work and met a friend of theirs for dinner. The band played a more rock and soul version of their arty American glitch folk, and the songs never ended which suited everyone just fine. A new pal David Horning was there, so we exchanged greetings, then founded the Davis Live Music Collective together a year later.

32.  Drivin' 'n' Cryin' at the now defunct Wrocklage club in Lexington, KY 1993 It was a night of firsts: first time I went to a show alone; first 21+ show on a fake ID; first time I saw what I thought of as a “big” band in a tiny club; first time I saw a fan hand the bass player a joint. They played fast and loud and drank and sweat – it was pure rock and roll.

33.  Blitzen Trapper at Harlow's in Sacramento, CA 2009 I saw these guys again in 2012, but the 2009 Furr tour caught them at their best – a tight six piece shaking it loose, making the records feel bigger and more alive.

34.  Lumineers at Harlow's in Sacramento, CA 2012 Nothing like last minute tickets from a DLMC pal for the biggest little show in town. I missed them playing on the porch at Sophia’s earlier in the year because we were camping, then they exploded and sold out two nights at Harlow’s and everywhere else they went.

35. The Robot Ate Me at Delta of Venus in Davis, CA 2006 Carousel Waltz is a great, odd-ball album that fell out of left field into a very sweet spot in my life in 2005. It had all the big, inscrutable emotion of a Jeff Mangus opus packed into catchy little bedroom pop tunes. Turns out Ryland Bouchard, who is The Robot Ate Me, has some deep Davis connections so a show at Delta wasn’t that unusual. He played toy instruments and electronic gadgets that spilled out of a magician’s suitcase into the crowd. He was like a skittish creature in the wild; fragile, unpredictable, maybe a little dangerous and playing by a set of rules the rest of us are not wired to understand. Afterward was as approachable as any good neighbor, but the impression was set. This guy is something else.

36. Keb Mo and Alvin Youngblood Hart, free in-store at Borders Books, Harvard Square 1995 Nothing like stumbling onto two amazing young blues singers you just heard about playing for free at the… Border’s Books? Why not. It was like Black History month story hour at the library. France Blues is still one of my favorites.

37.  Letters to Cleo at Tufts, Boston 1995 I was visiting town for a school break and got dragged along to the show. I don’t remember the opener, but I remember the sound guy played Weezer’s debut album cover to cover before the lights went down. Fucking genius. The live band was a lot of fun too.

38. Arlo Gurthrie at the Newport Folk Festival, Rhode Island 1994 I went with my then-girlfriend and our camp counselor friends while we were all shacked up together in Boston for the summer. They were into Ani DiSomebody and the Indigo Girls. I was into her. We made it all the way from Boston to Newport before I realized I had left the tickets at home, so I left them there and went back. Hearing Arlo sing the entire Alice’s Restaurant Massacre AND four extra “family only” versus of This Land is Your Land made it worth the trip.

39.  Barry Manilow at the Riverbend Music Center, Cincinnati 1985 Mom loves her some Manilow. I was 11 or 12, and just starting to get into my own thing, which was definitely not Barry Manilow. I remember my Mom’s perfume, and Dad being stressed out about getting there on time. I remember thinking that the tickets must have been expensive because the seats were pretty good, and feeling a little guilty about not wanting to go. Then there was the skinny tan man in a bright white suit. I remember my sister sleeping through the whole thing. I also remember wanting Copacabana to go on forever.

40.  Robert Earl Keen (Hardly Strictly Bluegrass, San Francisco 2006 I’ve seen Robert Earl Keen twice, both at Hardly Strictly, and it was like seeing two entirely different people. The first time he was sharp and funny, and played all my favorites in a way that made me appreciate them like a brand new fan. Three years later he was so drunk he slurred his way through half the songs and sapped the fun right out of it.


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